Book Review: Everything I Never Told You, By Celeste Ng

I realise that I am a little late to the party on this one, as this is a book that everyone was talking about a few years ago, following its publication in 2015, but I have finally read it and I need to talk about it.

It is a while since I have been so moved by a book and so consumed by thoughts of what might have been.

This book opens with the line "Lydia is dead. But they don't know this yet." which is certainly an eye-catching opener. We follow Lydia's family as they report her missing and her body is discovered, and then through the heartbreaking months that follow as they try to understand what happened and come to terms with her death.

Lydia Lee is mixed race with a second generation Chinese father and an American mother. In small- town Ohio of the 1970s this is a big deal and the repercussions of this 'difference' cause problems for all 5 of the Lees. Each member of her family has their own demons to address: Lydia's mother is desperate for Lydia to be different, to confront stereotypes and stand out from the crowd; whilst her father is desperate for her to be liked and fit in as he has always felt like an outsider; her older brother wants to break free from his family; and her younger sister just wants to be loved for herself and not feel she is living in Lydia's shadow.

 The story flits back and forth in time between the present day following Lydia's death, the months leading up to her death, and all the way back to the early days of her her parents' relationship in order to provide insights into what happened to Lydia. This is never confusing and always works well, revealing information subtly to the reader. 

The subplot around their neighbour Jack never really works for me and the revelation concerning him near the end is unconvincing but this is a small point and does not detract from the overall experience. This is a tragic and thought provoking novel exploring themes of identity, growing up, fitting in and finding your place in the world. It also poignantly discusses the nature of love, regret and the sacrifices we make for love. It is an incredibly sad book, but I would wholeheartedly recommend it.