Book Review: Asking For It, by Louise O'Neill

I have seen this book described as a book that everyone should read. And I agree. It is a very uncomfortable read, but the subject matter is so important that everyone should read it. And it is totally unputdownable - the kind of book that you have to read in one sitting.

The book is set in a small town in south-west Ireland. The kind of place where everyone knows everyone else and their business and everyone has plenty of opinions to share on the subject of other people's business. The main character, 18 year old Emma, is pretty, popular and very powerful within her social circle. Then one summer evening, after a house party she is raped and her world and life are changed forever. In fact, the whole town is changed forever. In the age of social media, this rape becomes a public show and everyone in the town knows about it and has an opinion about it. 

The book is divided into two parts: the first part introducing Emma and her friends, describing the events leading up to the fateful party and culminating in the rape itself and its immediate aftermath. Be warned, there are some very graphic and disturbing scenes. When we meet Emma she is not a likeable person - selfish, self absorbed and manipulative - but I think this has been done deliberately to make the reader question their idea of a victim, and it certainly makes food for thought. The second part of the book details the huge fallout from this night and shows how Emma's life, and that of her family, is destroyed by the rape. 

This is a shocking and disturbing book but it is a very important one, because it makes the reader question not only their idea of a victim, but also rape culture in general, the issue of consent, and how victims of rape are treated by society. Very thought provoking - the kind of reading material that should be required reading for all older teenagers. It left me feeling emotionally drained and very, very sad. It is not a good reflection on society and society's attitudes to women and it makes me worried for my daughters, but the more people that read it, the more people will think about these issues and question their ideas and beliefs. So please read it. And then get everyone you know to read it.